Sex is everywhere. It’s in our commercials, our television shows, our music, our art. There are songs about getting laid or not getting laid, books that examine sexual awakenings of various sorts, movies that center around the two leads getting into bed with one another, and incredibly long sitcom plot arcs devoted to the question of whether certain characters will bone one another.

If you were someone who didn’t understand sexual attraction on a basic level—if you didn’t really get why people liked doing that stuff so much—this might be a bit confusing. How would you perceive a rom-com, for example?

Once you date you realize although cool, The chances of you dating someone you’re not compatible with or an actual psycho are so high that it might steer you​.

If finding love is the true purpose of life, then why do so many single women feel fulfilled from being on their own? From romance novels to Disney movies to crappy rom coms, fictional narratives often depict falling in love as the ultimate end-goal. Even the most problematic on-screen couples often find their way back to each other, as if they were fated to be together—despite how incompatible they may be. This is especially true for female characters, who rarely manage to get through the first act without encountering the soon-to-be love of their life.

Yes, love is wonderful and intoxicating unlike anything else. The answer to that question is, of course, yes.