A scan of the statistics reveals: 1 in 5 Americans will experience mental health struggles in their lifetime. Two things we can learn from conversations about dating a partner with depression:. All relationships face obstacles, some more than others. Dating someone with depression is no exception, and can even be more challenging.

I’ll go on dates with guys, who are like “Yeah, I’d like my wife to take my last name​, cook for me, and iron my underpants, but I’d never date.

But, are you out there with the right intentions for romance? Being positive, proactive and enthusiastic helps, right? The dating mindset is no different. You need to break free from a preconditioned, victim-like mentality in order to attract the outcome you want. This means jumping in with both feet, ready to hit the ground running.

Dating is an enlivening and fulfilling experience that, even in itself, is worthy of some serious enthusiasm. Approach it like the adventure it is and allow yourself to feel the excitement of anticipation. Just admitting it to yourself can give you the kick you need to prioritise your own dating life. Think about your recent conversations with friends, family and co-workers.

Has anyone asked you questions about your love life? Now that you know, you can switch your mindset and get back in on the action. Are you on the couch in comfy clothes, imagining you have a date, instead of proactively finding one?